David Amerland

2 years ago ·

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Controlling your emotions when you are triggered is not the same as suppressing them. It is about making value judgments and weighing the impact of the consequences of actions on the values that personally matter to you most. This requires a certain amount of introspection and, also, a willingness to be deeply honest with yourself. 

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